Sunday, February 13, 2011

A Time of Soul-Searching

If you've read my first post, you may've noticed a tiny bit of it which said something along the lines of "I am Synthetik's Slave/Submissive (I'm trying to figure out exactly which one at the moment)".

So, basically, I was doing a bit of looking deep into myself to figure out which one applied to me more. I'm the type that I don't like to describe myself as something, only to find that I am not exactly that certain something and have to retract it. That, and I definitely don't want to be seen as a "poser" or "wannabe" or anything.

Much thinking ensued. I asked around about it, and read too. On I found a post regarding the Submissive vs. Slave debate said, basically, that a slave would sort of take on the limits of the Master, that got me to thinking, "What are Synthetik's limits?". So, I found a BDSM Checklist online and we went down the list, one by one, to see what things he was into (and after he answered, I would tell him my opinion on it). He and I were both 100% honest on everything, like a sort of kinky heart-to-heart.

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Epic Rant: Episode 1 - Elitists

Warning: Rant-y Text-Wall ahead! 

These are just my opinions on these matters, I do not claim to be an expert on anything. This post is not meant to offend anyone and you are more than welcome to have a differing opinion. Names and places have been left out to keep things tasteful and for privacy's sake.

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Elitists Pictures, Images and Photos
ElitistsIn short, a person, or group of persons, who believes something about them makes them superior to others, and they feel the need to flaunt their superiority.

You see them all the time in World of Warcraft, Forums of all kinds, Real life, and practically anywhere you can shake a stick at. Whether they put you down for your clothes, grammar, gear score, DPS, and what-have-you, there's always someone out there who, in trying to bolster their own esteem, and make them feel better about themselves, is always looking for someone to make feel terrible by treating others in a condescending manner. They have an air of self-importance about them and act as if only *they* know absolutely anything about, well, everything.

Thursday, February 3, 2011

Fun With Synthetik at Fort Macon

My Nightmare and I at Fort Macon :)

About a week ago, Synthetik and I decided to have a sort of date together to an old civil war fort not too far away called Fort Macon and it was so much fun!

We first went to a Dunkin' Donuts as a sort of Breakfast/Snack before we went (especially since work is right across the street and we get a discount), where he fell in love with "The Everything Bagel", I have to admit it was really really good, and I can see why he did, lol. He was born up North in New Jersey and moved down here to North Carolina when he was about four and has honestly been on the quest to find the perfect "Real Bagel" down here. I'm assuming that, while the "Everything Bagel" is probably his favorite one thus far (not counting the epic "Real Bagel" which I believe is a Salt one), it wasn't considered a real, Northern bagel, as he didn't hold it over his head like Link from Legend of Zelda and I didn't hear this: Link Finds an Item <---Click here for sound, please :) (..... I'm such a nerd :) )